If you reserve your electronic bedmate for those nights when your living, breathing, human partner isn’t around, what are you doing? Sex toys are a clutch way to up the ante in the bedroom and heighten intimacy with your S.O., since you’re trying something new and exciting together.
And let’s be real: Fingers, mouths, and genitals can only do so much, while the best sex toys for couples can take care of pretty much everything else.
Of course, bringing a toy into partner play for the first time can be a bit intimidating, especially if you’re not sure how your person might react. Liz Klinger, women’s sexual health expert and founder of Lioness, suggests the obvious: “Gauge their reaction first, talk about it, and then make a decision.” And realize, “there’s a chance that they may not want a sex toy, and that’s fine, too,” she adds. “There are plenty of other ways to explore and be intimate together.”
But if they ARE into it (yay!), go shopping. As much as you may want to surprise your partner with your latest haul, getting their input on what they’d like, too, will help make sure the toy gets proper, uh, usage. Together, decide what kind of penetration you want, how intense you want the vibration (if at all), and whether or not you want to add BDSM to your routine. Once you’ve figured all that out, the hardest part will be deciding how many of these 24 best sex toys for couples you should add to your arsenal. My take? The more, the better…
1 – Partner Multifun 1 Vibrator
A G-spot stimulator, cock ring, and clit vibe all in one cute package? Score! Use this toy with your partner and experiment with all the exciting ways it can spark your sexual curiosity. Satisfyer promises 100 (!) different vibration/setup combos for a climax you won’t forget.
2 – The Ohare Double Vibrating Rabbit Cock Ring
Hi, double-duty sex toy! This baby is designed just for couples, as a bullet vibe with both a built-in cock ring and rabbit ears. The ears massage your highly sensitive clitoris while the ring buzzes the base of his penis or shaft, upping the chances of the rare simultaneous orgasm. Enjoy!
3 – Partner Whale
Similar to the We-Vibe Match, this Satisfyer vibrator was also designed specifically for couples play. Fitted with two powerful motors, this curved toy is meant to pleasure you and your partner at the same time. The thicker part lies directly on the clit, while the other goes inside the vagina—targeting your G-spot and massaging your penetrating partner at the same time. With just the touch of a button, you can select one of three vibration intensities and seven rhythms to help you both climax. And hello, check out that price tag!
4 – Jive Couples Vibrator
If penetrative sex is your jam, but you want that vibration that neither fingers nor a penis can create, the We-Vibe Jive is for you. This perfectly sized egg-shaped vibrator is controlled remotely by a smartphone app, so you can insert it and use wear it during oral sex or sport it on your next date night to make foreplay an all-night event.
5 – Eva II Vibrator
This adorable toy is another one designed with couples in mind. The tiny, light, and simple-to-use vibe is similar to a cock ring (direct clit pleasure for her), but it’s worn by the woman instead, making it a little less cumbersome. Plus, it’s waterproof, so you can get very creative with your sexual adventures.
6 – Lelo Ida
Ida is like the women’s version of a cock ring: You insert it inside your vagina, and when your partner thrusts, you both get the extra sensation of vibration against your private bits (your clit, his shaft). The soft and small handheld remote makes controlling the intensity super easy, too.
7 – Lovehoney Oh! Roll Play Foreplay Dice
Craving more foreplay in your life but not sure where to start? Whip out these sex dice with your partner, and take turns rolling until you’ve done every verb + noun combo—or until you just can’t take it anymore.
8 – Le Wand Pleasure Set Bundle
Don’t let the price tag scare you: This kit has everything you could ever want for a night of toy-induced fun.
LeWand doubles as a solo and partnered toy, so you can use it on yourself and then add one of the **special** attachments to use on your partner. It’s an all-in-one toy for clitoris stimulation, anal penetration, and hitting the G-spot, so you know it’ll pack a punch for everyone involved.
9 – Match Couples Vibrator
Taking tech to a whole new level, this sex toy is part vibrator, part app. You or a partner can control vibrations through either the wireless remote or the We-Connect app. Users can even create custom vibes (and save them!) to rev their partner from any location. Plus, the snug fit gives attention to your G-spot and clit, while the 10 different vibe options also feel amazing for his penis as it slips under the toy during sex.
10 – Tomboi Harness
If you’re in a two-vagina relationship and at least one of you craves penetrative sex, the Tomboi harness is just what you need. With a silky, comfy fit, this harness looks like underwear, but it can hold any dildo you throw its way. Oh, and if you need a dildo suggestion, try this super smooth cutie.
11 – Mio Cock Ring
This vibrating cock ring is amaaazing. The padded silicone ring sits at the base of the penis and adds vibration that both partners will love during penetrative sex. You can also use this toy as a way to tease your penis-owning partner before diving into P-in-the-V action.
12 – Club Vibe 3.OH
Want to get the party going outside the bedroom? Slip this vibe in your undies before hitting the party or club with your partner, and let it control you as it vibrates to the beat of the music. You can even give your sexy someone the remote control so they have full power over when and where you get to have your fun—from the dance floor to the back of the Uber.
13 – Ultimate Lovers’ Bundle
Want options? Now you’ve got ’em. This Lover’s Bundle from online sex boutique Lovehoney has a five-days of fun approach. The set includes a finger vibrator, a vibrating love ring, massage essentials, and scratch cards.
14 – Sex Ramp
When it comes down to it, sometimes all you need to spice up your sex life is a change in position. Find new ways to bend your and your partner’s bodies and get deeper penetration with this comfy (and machine washable!) sex ramp.
15 – Le Wand Point Vibrator
This tiny but mighty vibrator has a perfectly soft-pointed tip for direct stimulation on any (and pretty much every) body part imaginable. Use it to tickle your partner’s nipples, belly button, or inner thighs, then have them surprise you the same.
16 – Door Jam Cuffs
If you and your partner want to try playing with bondage but don’t have a great place to hook some handcuffs, these door cuffs are the answer. Throw them over the door of your room or bathroom, strap in, and have fun. These cuffs take your sex life up a notch—literally.
17 – Novice Butt Plug
If you or your partner wants to play with anal stimulation but aren’t sure where to start, this novice plug is perfect. With a remote for partner control and varying levels of vibration, this plug (which definitely requires water-based lube) will 100-percent enhance penetrative sex, oral sex, or solo time (for when your partner isn’t in the picture).
18 – Double Dildo
Made for couples with two vaginas, this double dildo doesn’t just allow for penetration at the same time, it also doesn’t mimic a penis even a little bit (because why would you want that?). Bless!
The long curved end actually looks like two fingers, but can reach lengths no ordinary human could. Again, just don’t forget the lube.
19 – Sex Sling
Channel your inner Samantha Jones with this sex swing. You’ll need a reliable place to hang it (read the instructions before making any holes in your walls!), but once it’s up, you’ll be able to swing into penetration like your own boudoir Cirque du Soleil. Experiment with every kind of angle possible, upside-down penetration…yep, pretty much anything within your imagination.
20 – Sensuelle Point
This pocket-sized sex toy has 20 (yes, you read that right) different speeds, vibrations, and patterns of rhythm—so no surprise that it’s known for its strength and intensity. Because it’s so small, this bullet vibe fits easily between you and your partner during sex.
21 – Fin Vibrator for Fingers
Honestly, Fin is a miracle toy. Perfectly fit for your pointer finger, this little powerhouse packs a serious punch. Use it alone or add to penetrative sex for some extra clitoral stimulation. Added bonus, Fin doesn’t look anything like a penis, in case penises aren’t your ~thing~ when it comes to sexy time.
22 – We-Vibe Moxie
Another wearable vibrator (read: stick it in your underwear), this one from We-Vibe is whisper-quiet, comfortable, and budge-proof (thanks to a magnetic clip). Hand off the little remote —or have your partner download the app—and let them take control (literally) when you’re together or apart.
23 – Ohnut
This unsuspecting toy brings penetrative sex to a whole new, highly comfortable level. If you experience painful sex, it could be caused by everything from giving birth to endometriosis to vaginismus to doggy style that just doesn’t sit right with your cervix. Ohnut helps take care of all that so you can enjoy yourself (which, ya know, is kinda the whole point). Use the stackable rings with either a penis or dildo (and plenty of lube) by slipping them on before penetration—they prevent your partner from entering too deep.
24 – Iroha Midori Vibrator
The Iroha Midori is a tiny, squishy vibrator that looks more like a stress ball than a product for sexual pleasure, but that’s what makes it an easily maneuverable toy that is totally non-threatening. Designed to provide pleasure for all tastes, it offers a variety of vibration intensities and patterns, so you and your partner can discover what really gets you going. Experiment with this vibe by using it to stroke all the different erogenous zones on your and his body, not just the genitals.